Man plans and God laughs. ~ Yiddish proverb.
Whenever people find out you’re planning something this proverb comes out. The joke implies that planning isn’t worth the time it takes, that you will fail, that you can’t be serious. But this is not the last word on planning. How about:
“It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien,
I can’t plan what happens to me but I can remind myself of my goals. And I can plan how I will respond. I can also practice my values. I can stretch to be my highest and best self. And I can adjust my plans – in case of dragons.
In fact, given the nature of life, resilient, gritty, hard-headed, determined plans are the only ones that stick. Because I’m not going to get it all right the first time. Or the second. Or . . . .
How about this from the guy who planned D-Day:
“In preparing for battle I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable.”
― Dwight D. Eisenhower
Also, if I’m going to take the time and effort to resiliently plan, they may as well be plans worth having, right? That means big, aspiring, even poetic plans should be the rule. They need to get you going.
Unless you are silly enough to post your plans on the internet, no one is going to know. So, go big!
“Someone’s sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago.”
― Warren Buffett
With this in mind, here goes my plan for this week. (Stop snickering)
Today I will concentrate on what I can do, instead of what others did. I will focus on the world I can touch rather than things beyond my reach about which I can only complain.
I will speak truth rather than criticize liars. I will love rather than accuse others of hate. I will lift rather than opine. I will lead rather than point. I will not stand by.
I will take courage by placing my fears in God’s hands. I will fear not living more than dying. I will not carry the fears of others but will make the courageous my companions.
I will ignore the counsel of my own doubts which have not prevented failure but have stopped all attempts at success. Fear of failure is my enemy. Failure is my friend for it teaches the lessons that I need to better try again.
I will not read the news; I will be my own news and live my own life. No one can do it for me.
I will vigorously implement the plan I have rather than chase (a) perfect plan tomorrow. (<<See) No man’s plan survives the day intact. We learn as we go or we don’t learn at all.
The little I can do is not enough, but it is not nothing. I will give all today and hope for tomorrow.
“If you don’t know where you are going,
you’ll end up someplace else.”
― Yogi Berra